BJ is the only one of our three horses who has never known an owner besides me. And he never will. I promised BB before I had her bred that if she did this for me, she would have her foal beside her always. I try very hard to always keep my promises.
The foal was due around the same time that our second granddaughter was due. My daughter-in-law asked me point blank one day, if both babies were born at the same time, which would I choose to be present for?
Thank goodness I didn’t have to choose. I was present for both. BJ was born first on May 14, 2009, and our granddaughter arrived on May 29. It was a very good year.
BJ was born in our corral, about mid-morning. Danny and I were both present. I had been watching BB closely, and when she couldn’t seem to make much progress, I called the vet. He ended up having to pull BJ. Now, just so you know, our vet is not a small man. In fact, in another life, he could probably have been a lineman for the Kansas City Chiefs. He struggled to pull BJ, and, after the birth, told me that BJ looked like a month-old foal.
BJ is still huge. The average height of a quarterhorse is 15 hands, or 60 inches (one hand = 4 inches) from hoof to withers (highest point of the front shoulder). BJ is 16 hands high, or 64 inches. That is actually the average height of a thoroughbred. But BJ is not slender like a thoroughbred. He has the thick, muscular features of the quarterhorse. So, bottom line, I always get the feeling when I’m riding him, that if he really wanted to, he could toss me like a rag doll.
But honestly, BJ is pretty darn sweet. And he is beautiful. Really. A creamy buckskin with thick, wavy black mane and tail. His maternal grandsire was a racehorse, and his paternal grandsire was an award-winning showhorse. He is a sight to behold as he races through the pasture.
It is his personality, however, that I love most. BJ talks to me. When I call the horses, he is the one who answers back. When I come out of the house and walk towards the corral, he is the one who nickers in anticipation and greets me at the gate.
He is still trying to establish his place in the herd. Zip will calmly put up with BJ’s ear-flattening, tail swishing and foot stomping for a while, but will eventually get fed up with it. Clearly not intimidated by BJ’s size, Zip will flatten his ears, bite BJ on the shoulder or rump, and quickly put the youngster back in his place. BJ’s constant testing of boundaries reminds me of some other young males who used to live in our household.
BJ is funny. He’s my corral clown. If I laugh out loud at one of my horses, it is always BJ. One day I got a facetime call from my grandkids while I was in the corral with the horses. As I was holding the phone, talking to the kids, BJ came up behind me, put his head on my shoulder and watched the phone. He was so curious! He sniffed the phone and put his lips on it, trying to figure out how those tiny people got into that small box! On their end, the grandkids were seeing huge nostrils, a huge tongue, and huge teeth. They thought it was hilarious.
But in my opinion, the funniest thing BJ has ever done involved my new hat.
Normally, I wear a large-brimmed straw hat when working outside. But if it’s rainy, I have a water-proof hat that I wear instead. That hat is a cobalt blue. Now, I am convinced that horses can see some form of color. It may not be exactly what we humans see, but my experience is that they respond to color.
For instance, before we moved back to the farm, I boarded BB in town very near our home. As I rode her around the area where she was boarded, she would stop at every newspaper holder in front of the neighborhood homes. She ignored the mailboxes, but was fascinated by the plastic newspaper holders. She sniffed them, licked them, and I generally had a difficult time pulling her away from them. It suddenly dawned on me. They were all green! The same green color as her grain bucket.
Back to the blue hat. BJ noticed it. As I was sweeping and shoveling that day, he kept crowding me, sniffing and nibbling at my new, out-of-the-ordinary, blue hat.
I pushed him away. “Get out of here. I’m busy,” I told him.
He persisted. He grabbed at the brim of the hat with his teeth.
I waved him off. “Quit it, BJ! Leave my hat alone.”
The hat had a chin strap which I had tightened under my chin. He again grabbed the brim with his teeth, pulled up, and almost guillotined me.
I gave up. “Fine! You want my hat so bad? Here, take it!” I took the hat off, placed it on the top of his head between his ears, and wrapped the chin strap around his ears so that it would not slip off.
I honestly thought he would try to shake it off. He did not. Instead, he paraded around the corral, head held high like an ingenue balancing a book on her head at Miss Priss’ School for Young Girls.
I laughed at his silliness, but he didn’t care. He stood and posed as I took his photo. He continued to wear it the entire time I did my chores. Not once did he try to shake it off.
When I finally took my hat back, he let me. He had accomplished what he had set out to do. For a while, it had been his hat.
Next Week: Note to Self: Next Time, Wear Gloves